If buying a home feels harder than you expected — you’re not imagining it.
Across Spokane and the Tri-Cities, buyers are navigating one of the most emotionally demanding markets in years. Even well-qualified, prepared buyers are finding the process frustrating and exhausting.
Why Buyers Feel Stuck
Today’s buyers are up against several forces at once:
- Historically low inventory
- Multiple-offer competition on well-priced homes
- Interest rate uncertainty
- Fear of overpaying or making the “wrong” decision
When these pressures stack up, it’s easy to feel like progress is out of reach — even when buying still makes sense long-term.
Why “Just Be Faster” Isn’t Helpful Advice
One of the most common pieces of advice buyers hear is: “You just have to move fast.”
But speed without strategy often leads to:
- Emotional decision-making
- Overpaying to win
- Waiving protections buyers later regret
Buying a home isn’t a race — it’s a long-term financial and lifestyle decision. Going faster doesn’t automatically mean going smarter.
What Actually Helps Buyers Right Now
The buyers who succeed in this market aren’t the most aggressive — they’re the most prepared.
What actually helps includes:
- Clear criteria that separate needs from wants
- Strong financing education and lender alignment
- Market-specific strategy, not generic advice
- Guidance on when not to offer, preserving leverage and confidence
Preparation creates clarity — and clarity reduces stress.
Featured Team Insight: Monica Kullman & Jessica
At RealVantage, teamwork plays a major role in helping buyers move forward confidently.

In one recent transaction, a first-time buyer met Jessica at an open house at her listing. Instead of pushing them to act quickly, Jessica focused on understanding their goals and then connected them with Monica Kullman for strategic buyer representation.
In a competitive multiple-offer situation, Monica communicated directly with Jessica (the listing agent) to uncover what truly mattered most to the seller. Using that insight, the team structured an offer that aligned with the seller’s priorities — not just the price.
Through thoughtful negotiation, attention to detail, and seamless collaboration, the buyer came out on top without panic, pressure, or regret.
That’s what changes outcomes in tough markets: strategy, communication, and a team working behind the scenes.
Final Thought
Buying feels hard because it is hard — especially right now.
But when buyers are supported by education, strategy, and the right team, the process becomes clearer, calmer, and far more successful.
The right support doesn’t just help you buy a home — it helps you feel good about the decision long after closing.

